The purpose of a relationship...

The purpose of a relationship...


The purpose of relationship is not to have another who might complete you: but to have another with whom you might share your completeness...
Relationship is not a responsibility but an opportunity, an opportunity for growth, for full Self expression, for lifting your lives to their highest potential,for healing every false thought or small idea you ever had about you, and for ultimate reunion with God through the communion of your two souls...

It is a mystery why we fall in love.



It is a mystery how it happens. It is a



mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why



some love grows and it is a mystery why



some love fails. You can analyze this



mystery and look for reasons and causes, but



you will never do anymore than take the life



out of the experience. Just as life itself is



more than the sum of the bones and muscles



and electrical impulses in the body, love is



more than the sum of the interests and



attractions and commonalties that two people



share. And just as life itself is a gift that



comes and goes in its own time, so too, the



coming of love must be taken as an



unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in



its ways. Sometimes, hopefully at least once



in your life - the gift of love will come to you



in full flower, and you will take hold of it and



celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is



the dream we all share. More often, it will



come and take hold of you, celebrate you for



a brief moment, then move on. When this



happens to young people, they too often try



to grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing



to see that it is a gift that is freely given and



a gift that just as freely, moves away. When



they fall out of love, or the person they love



feels the spirit of love leaving, they try



desperately to reclaim the love that is lost



rather than accepting the gift for what it was,



then moving on. They want answers where



there are no answers. They want to know what



is wrong in them that makes the other person



no longer love them, or they try to get their



lover to change, thinking that if some small



things were different, love would bloom again.



They blame their circumstances and say that



if they go far away and start a new life



together, their love will grow. They try



anything to give meaning to what has



happened. But there is no meaning beyond the



love itself, and until they accept its own



mysterious ways, they live in a sea of



misery. You need to know this about love,



and to accept it. You need to treat what it



brings to you with kindness. If you find



yourself in love with someone who does not



love you, be gentle with yourself. There is



nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't



choose to rest in the other person's heart. If



you find someone else in love with you and



you don't love him, feel honored that love



came and called at your door, but gently



refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take



advantage; do not cause pain. How you deal



with love is how you deal with you, and all our



hearts feel the same pains and joy, even if



our lives and ways are different. If you fall in



love with another, and he falls in love with



you, and then love chooses to leave, do not



try to reclaim it or to assess the blame, let it



go. There is a reason and there is a meaning.



You will know in time. Remember that you



don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you



can really do is accept it for all its mystery



when it comes into your life. Feel the way it



fills you to overflowing, then reach out and



give it away. Give it back to the person who



bought it alive in you. Give it to others who



deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world



around you in any way you can. There is



where many lovers go wrong. Having been so



long without love, they understand love only



as a need. They see their hearts as empty



places that will be filled by love, and they



begin to look at love as something that flows



to them rather than from them. The first blush



of new love are filled to overflowing, but as



their love cools, they revert to seeing their



love as a need. They cease to be someone



who generates love and instead becomes



someone who seeks love. They forget that



the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it



can be made to grow only by giving it away.



Remember this and keep it to your heart.



Love has its own time, its own seasons, and



its own reason for coming and going. You



cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into



staying. You can only embrace it when it

to share with sombody your happiness, sorrows, ups & downs,

for you to beome complete....

to have somene whom you can share the rest of your life through good or bad

in sickness & in health

till death o they part!!!!

happy EASTER

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paya mataya tayu ngayung Easter sunday