Na pregnant ng BoyFriend ko ang Mommy ko...i need advice....

Hi! Chris and Nicole, im an avid fan of you're radio show, every morning i see to it that my radio is tuned in to 90.7 love radio specially on you're program, Nakakatawa talaga kayo guys, Well I'd like to share with you my problem and sana ma ifeature nyo din sa radio show nyo, Im Irish 16yrs. old just graduated from High School last March, My problem had a connect with my mom, Almost 5 years ng Separated ang Mom and Dad ko, At may sariling family na ang daddy ko but we had a chance see him pagbakasyon, me and my siblings lived with my mom, actually ang mommy ko ay high school teacher, nagsimula ang problem ko ng nagkaroon ako ng boyfriend, okay naman kay mommy kilala nya kasi classmate ko sya at student din nya, nagpupunta sya sa bahay namin at tanggap naman ni mommy, 3rd year high school ako nung mangyari ito, nagplano ang daddy ko na itreat nila kami na magvacation sa cebu, so vacation time naman noon kayo okay naman, kaso hindi sumama ang mommy ko kasi that time my handle sya na summer class sa school, so me and my siblings went to cebu with my dad, i always called my mom every night and suprisingly ang sumasagot ng fone is my boyfriend, well i ask my mom bakit nandyan sya? ang sabi nya nagpapatutor lang... so i just ignored it and enjoy my 2weeks vacation with my dad... Not knowing that pagbalik ko ay may big problem ako na kakaharapin... To cut the story short for 2weeks pala na pagtutor ng mommy ko sa bf ko ay may nagyayari pala sa kanila, later inamin ng mommy ko sa akin ang nagyari kasi she got pregnant with my boyfriend, i confronted my bf ang ask why? did you do this to me? he said na mahal nya ang mommy ko... it was so painful, i dont know what to do? my mom gave birth to a baby boy and kamukha nga sya ng boyfriend ko, until now the pain is still in my heart.... i was still puzzled about what happened. Sana you'll give me some advice... Thanks and more power Irish

this is just so ouch...

wait mo na lang sabihin ng tambalan, and andito mga onliners para suportahan ka...

nakita ko rin sa wakas ang question mo..anyway ang hirap pla nito...di ko alam sasabihin ko... w8 natin ung iba for their responce ha..bka may maidagdag me sa sagot nila...but dito po kami para suportahan ka...

masakit tlga isipin ung ganyang sitwasyon, tlgang masakit pero its the reality kc, tatagan mo nlang loob mo, try to seek comfort from some people or sa mga friends mo...d2 lang po muna..for now..

ndi ko rin alam..

dba nga cnsabi nila kung ndi ka na mahl ng bf mo edi let go.. kaso ngalang sa case mo mahirap kac posble na mging stepfather mo ung bf <if ever> tps ung mgging anak ng bf mo sa mommy mo xempre mgging kptd mo un.. grabe anhirp..

tanggapin mo na lng kung ano ung ngyari..

antayin mo na rin ung ibang response ng mga onliners.. bka mas my mgnda silang masbi,..

Thank guys for all the responses that you gave me..., yah im just holding to my faith in god, wala na kami nung guy of course naman after all what he have done, my mom admit her mistake, pero it's so hard to let go, lalo na pagnakikita ko yung baby coz kamukha sya ng boyfriend ko.

uw story is very rare kung ikukumpara sa ibang relationship problems..

for me, the very first thing that came up to my mind eh dapat never kang magtanim ng galit sa mom mo.. after all eh babae din siya tulad mo na naiinlove at nagkakamali din tulad ng ibang tao when it comes to lovelife..

maybe the reason na nafall ung bf mo sa mom mo eh nakikita niya ikaw sa reflection ng mom mo.. yun nga lang eh i can say na mas better ang moms than daughters.. because they have the experience on how to handle the relationship..

lalake lang yan at marami ka pang makikilala na lalaking mamahalin ka hindi dahil u have the looks or what.. yung mamahalin ka bilang ikaw.. yung mamahalin ka and contented to what you have and what you can give..

Yah, it a rare case but it does happen, i forgive my mom, afterall she's my mom, i know that we have weaknesses, and nadala lang sya ng emotions nya when it happened, now i realized that kaya pala ako ginawang girlfriend nung guy is may gusto sya sa mommy ko. it was an unfortunate case. Thanks for the responses, it eases the pain that i have...

my mas magnda pang plno si god sayo..

sobrang ouch talaga...


Pero bata ka pa naman..at marami pa jan...

Thank You sa responses nyo guys... Nakakatuwa naman at people responded to my post... Salamat sa lahat...

xempre iisang pamilya tayo dito..

Thank You talaga... I really felt that we're family here... kahit na sad ang nagyari sa akin... but anyway im moving forward, but we can't hide about the past, im still coping...

nandito ako para sa'yo.. ehehhe joke lang po..

Thank You guys... I really appreciate it

punta ka sa next eb ntn a!

buti nalang hindi ka na galit sa mom mo... yun ang nagpagaan ng problema.

but how about your dad? anong naging reaksyon nya sa bagay na yan?

and kumusta naman ang pakikitungo mo sa baby?

Well alam na ng daddy ko, pero hindi naman sya nagalit kasi hiwalay na sila at may sarili na syang pamilya, but of course it was a surprise to him, to think na teacher mom ko at student nya ang involve and boyfriend ko pa, of course at first when my mom admits what happened i felt my head and my heart will explode... i cry overnight, but like i said she's still my mom, i hated the guy... i loved him so much at that time, about the baby i realized that walang kasalanan ang baby i loved him as my other siblings... this was a dark secret of our family... may mga hindi pa nga nakakaalam kasi nga scandal nga talaga...

alam mo, saludo ako sayo. Hindi lahat ng anak ay ganyan, at 16 ka palang ha... isipin mo yun!
Actually, na solve mo na ang problema mo bago mo pa sya naikwento samin. I admire your level of understanding.

Sama ka sa EB ha!

lipat ko topic mo sa makabuluhang katanungan ha!

Well thank you so much tonio, it's not easy to forgive it takes months din and a barrel of tears, syempre at first talagang the worse ang nangyari, but with the help and guidance of my ninang madre and my true friends talagang i forgive my mom but the guy, i dont think so.... I just wanted to share this to everyone and to know what was other people opinions about this case kasi it happened eh, and i know may few cases din out there...

Thank You Tonio....

Sana ma feature itong question ko sa radio show ng tambalan... its worth discussing over the radio, kasi i was not alone with this topic, i know there are cases din out there... Thank You...

basta andito lang onliners para sa yo...

Thank you po kuya...

Thank You for all the responses that i received.... God Bless to all

Although guys... i forgive my mom about it, it still hunt me till now... sometimes biglang bumabalik ang memories of the past... Ang hirap mag move on...

hold on....irish.....

kaya mo yan eh..

everything naman may purpose...

and God has a better plan for you!!

^korekteD BY!!

maghanap ka nalang ng bagong boyfriend sa mga places.. tulad ng forum..

Open Arms ako.. LoL

^kuya vintage wag mong takutin si irish..

ciguro hindi talaga para syo yung boyfrend mo... ikaw lang ang naging tulay para makilala ng momy mo ang lalaking para sa kanya...ang tanong pananagutan ba ng x mo yung kapatid mo sa momy mo???? malamang lagi madalas kyo mag kita nyan kasi for short stefader mo dya.. hanap kanalang ng bago... sana dis time wag na manyari yon.. sagwa naman...
anyway kung manyari uli .. hanap ka uli.... jok... for short you have to move on... dont leave in the past... kya mo yan..

may mas malalaking problema kaysa syo... tulad ko... d ko alam susuot kong tshirt... yung white ba or yung black... hirap mo... sana may naitulong ako...hehehehehe

keep smiling...

pucha binasa ko uli yung coment ko... kakahiya...gramar ko.... ang gulo.. sana di nalang ako nag coment

Well kuya arkiryds, of course hindi pananagutan ng bf ko ang mommy ko at hindi ako papayag na magkaganon.

Well kuya vintage naman, medyo off muna ako sa having relationship because of what happened, i trusted him so much, and dont even think that this nightmare will happens, imagine i trusted him, i love him pero on my back pala ang gusto nya ang mommy ko, so many people out there naman pero bakit ang mommy ko pa...

Thank you po cams, reymil, vintage arkiryds, sa mga responses nyo... Thank you

irishnicole wrote:

Well kuya vintage naman, medyo off muna ako sa having relationship because of what happened, i trusted him so much, and dont even think that this nightmare will happens, imagine i trusted him, i love him pero on my back pala ang gusto nya ang mommy ko, so many people out there naman pero bakit ang mommy ko pa...

biro lang po yung kanina ha ^^ peace poh..

ay...c vintage....hahaha....

bigyan muna ng time si irish...hehe...

peace!!

Isipin mo na lang, mas mabigat ang problema ng mundo.

Yah naku guys... you made my day, kahit na malaki ang problem ko napapatawa nyo ako.... Thank You guys! love you all!

parang nangangampanya lang ah!! hehe.. jk lng!

sumama ka sa EB para lalo kang maaliw...

manlibre ka na rin para masaya!
Haha! Joke lang...



joke lang kung di mo seseryosohin..

Ganon... kuya, will see if im gonna go sa EB, kasi medyo busy na ako eh...

@irish sana medyo lumuwag ang dinadala mong problema, kc kanina narinig ko kaninna to na binasa ng tambalan...

sana naliwanagan ka sa suggestions nila....

i also heard it at sana eh ma-apply mo nga ung suggestions nila.. it would help... even a little... ^^

Yah! Thank you talaga sa tambalan... kay chris at nicole...

i appreciate it so much... guys! Thank You!

UNA SA LAHAT GURL UTANG NA LOOB YANG BF MO!!! (GRABE SUPER AFFECTED TLAGA AKECHIWA!!) NAKAKAINIS KASE YANG BF MO...MAKATI PA SYA SA GABING BICOL..KALERKEI..HAAAAYYY

SABIHIN MO SA KANYA MERON PONG AVAILABLE NA MGA ANTI FUNGAL CREAM NA NABIBILI SA MGA BOTIKA...KUNDI PA MWALA YUNG KATI PAKAGAT NYA SA ASONG ULOL...KALERKEI SYA OO...

ANYWAYS PAGDASAL MO NLANG SIYA NA SANA MAPADALI BUHAY NIYA!!! AHAHHAHA

HAAAY NKO GURL MAGHANAP K NLNG NG MAS GWAPO AT WALANG FUNGUS NA BF...KALERKEI OO..

^ hindi ka nmn masyadong affected db?

HINDI NMN MASYADO CAMS LUMELEVELING LANG...AHAHAHAHAHAHA KAASAR NMN KASE DBEAR?

Well syempre toshi, when my mom broke me the news its was so painful, sobra para akong sasabog na bomba noon, sumasakit ulo ko as in grabe talaga... Well ngayon im recovering from the situation that my family faces... after i heard na binasa ng tambalan, talagang super overwhelmed ako.... napapa gravious din ako... well its so true na laughter is the best medicine... napapatawa nyo ako guys... lahat kayo na nagpost dito sa questions ko... i feel na we are a big family here... more power sa ating lahat... at walang iwanan ha...

sana try mo din po magpost sa ibang topics para mas makita pa namin kung anong klaseng tao si irishnicole! ^^

ang gulo ng earth!