keeping a girl

Subject: keeping a girl 16th December 2008, 9:22 am

NOTE: it doesnt mean po nalahat ng lalake or babae ay ganito.

minsan may mga babaeng palaging sasabihin sa lalake:

wag syang paiiyakin... pero sya ang nagpapaiyak
wag syang sasaktan pero sya ang nanakit
wag syang iiwan kasi natatakot sya mag isa pero sya ang nang iwan
wag syang lolokohon pero sya ang naloko

QUESTIONs:

does it take into consideration for a girl to stay and keep in a relationship if something happen with her and the guy? or nothing at all?

may mga girl ba talaga na bigla na lang nawawala ang love sa guy kahit na na wala namang third party involve both with the girl and the boy? anong dahilan? bakit?

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 26th December 2008, 5:44 pm

meron. siguro
meh doubts?
sawa na?

o

part time lng tlga? [WAG NAMAN SANA TLGA]

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 5th January 2009, 7:01 pm

hmmmm....

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 5th January 2009, 7:25 pm

meron tlga cgurong gnun.bka gusto ng girl eh laging may away.or cguro nag sawa as icy mentioned. ska cguro may mga girls na may thrill seeking genes.gusto may thrill lagi sa relationship.hehehehe

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 6th January 2009, 9:12 am

what kind of thrill?

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 6th January 2009, 9:31 pm

ung may away cla ng bf nya, parang gnun. bsta gusto lagi ng ngulong relasyon.

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rich_havens wrote:: NOTE: it doesnt mean po nalahat ng lalake or babae ay ganito.

minsan may mga babaeng palaging sasabihin sa lalake:

wag syang paiiyakin... pero sya ang nagpapaiyak
wag syang sasaktan pero sya ang nanakit
wag syang iiwan kasi natatakot sya mag isa pero sya ang nang iwan
wag syang lolokohon pero sya ang naloko

QUESTIONs:

does it take into consideration for a girl to stay and keep in a relationship if something happen with her and the guy? or nothing at all?

may mga girl ba talaga na bigla na lang nawawala ang love sa guy kahit na na wala namang third party involve both with the girl and the boy? anong dahilan? bakit?

ahm..first of all judges gudmorning...

im not feeling preassure right now..

ahaha...

pang bb pilipinas toh ah...

wait eto na sagot ko...well the answer is yes..

since i dont understand english yes nlng..ahaha..

dun sa pangalawang question oo..ganon tlg mga babae based on experience ah..pwedeng mwala ang love namen for one guy..ewan ko..bsta ganon prang narerealize mo na prang wala ng spark..mrami kang questions..pero nasasayo nlng howto handle it..if u think u can still hold on into rel. pwedeng pg tyagaan pero.....

bsta ganon eh..mhirap i explain...bsta un n un...

i thank you...

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 7th January 2009, 9:28 am

at kapag nawala yung love di na maiisip nung girl na yung guy yung unang pinagbigyan nya ng kanyang sarili?

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 7th January 2009, 9:43 am

share ko lang...

when i was a kid long long long time ago....

i told to myself.... i will marry the girl who give herself to me or if im the one who get her first...

but let me tell you before all you give your bloody reaction... since i am a man now... (man daw oh?!) it doesnt matter to me if a girl is a "V" or "not V"

cause i do believe that this girl only give herself to this guy because she love and trust her... i that case the girl should not always be be blame for what happen...

for me i dont blame the girl because what happen to the girl is because of a man like me...

sana lang may mga lalake na di nila sisisihin/ iiwanan ang girl kapag nalaman nila na this girl is "not V" dahil somehow theres a time na sya rin ang nakauna sa girl at iniwan o naghiwalay din sila... sana mas umiral ang love...

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 7th January 2009, 12:13 pm

bsta tama.. minsan nga kse nghhnap ka ng thrill..
okya meh kulang sa guy na nkita mo sa ibang tao..
pwde din yunn.. pro kdlasan siguro pg boring na
yun relationship.. Very Happy

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 7th January 2009, 1:13 pm

i agree to u rich...cnbi ko din un sa srili ko,na i will only give my "V" sa mapapangasawa ko,kaso ung pinagbigyan ko,hndi ko nakatuluyan eh...
kasi kmi ni daddy, hndi naman nya ako hinawalyan nung nalaman nya "not V" na ako nung nging kami..kya i love daddy so much.and i am very thankful that God gave me daddy...and hndi ko naman pinagsisihan ung ginawa ko.ginusto ko un eh.pero wla naman remembrance nung ginawa ko un noon.naging maingat naman ako...pero ngaun i'm happy naman with daddy..npaka psensyoso..pero minsan nauubos na...hehehe

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 7th January 2009, 4:41 pm

TODAY, I will
attend an execution: my own. I will watch it with both eyes open and I
will not cry. I will not break down just because the man I have loved
since forever will marry someone else. I will watch him promise himself
to a woman who will never love him like I have. I will watch them bind
themselves to a vow I should have taken.

I
have loved Oliver almost all my life. I have known him since I saved
his six-year-old hide from a bully named Ricardo who wanted to rid him
of his two yellowed front teeth. I was five at the time, but having
grown with five older brothers and a hellion of a sister, ''Totoy
Cardo'' was a piece of cake.

Oliver
was so overcome with embarrassment at having a girl to protect his
scrawny neck that from that time on he made it a point to be the
rescuer, not the rescued. As time passed, muscles filled out this lanky
frame and those two front teeth began to sparkle. He combs his hair,
and he takes a bath daily now. In short, he has become a fine specimen
of manhood.

The
best part is, he lived up to his promise: he became my self-appointed
guardian (well, I don't know if that's the best or the worst part). He
was just always there, sticking to me like glue. It used to drive me
nuts that he never let me out of his sight.

When
I was 12, I ran from the infirmary on my way home. I had found out in
the most humiliating way that I had become a woman: there was a big red
stain on the back portion of my skirt. The jeers and the taunts
followed methrough the school corridors. Oliver dashed after me and
offered to accompany me home. I declined, of course. He seemed to
understand my discomfiture and promised to drop later with the things
left in school. When I reached home I was told that I needed to jump
three times on the stairs (which I did) and to wash my face with my
blood (which I didn't do).

Oliver
dropped by in the afternoon, sporting a black eye and a bruise on his
arm. When I asked him what happened, he said he had walked into a
closed door. I believed him. But a few days later, minus the
dysmennorhea, I found out that Oliver got into fisticuffs because some
guy made a disgusting remark about me.

Nobody
had ever fought for me before that. And when you're 12 and discussing
in class how King Arthur and fairest of them all, Lancelot, fought for
Guinevere's love, you tend to get ideas. I loved Oliver then.

When
we were in high school and I found out that the school's heartthrob and
one of my most ardent suitors, Richard, was involved with a bustier
girl, it was to Oliver that I ran. When I didn't graduate as
valedictorianand I got so drunk, it was Oliver who took me home. He
didn't even mind that I barfed all over his dad's car (which he
borrowed without permission).

When
I decided to go to UP and he went to Ateneo, we celebrated by partying.
When I lost my mom in a car accident, he took care of everything. When
my dad followed my mom less than a year later after a heart attack, he
was there again. By this time he was an appendage of my life. He used
to check out the guys I came to know. Nobody dared to get serious with
me--not when Oliver had a black belt.I didn't know how to define our
relationship.

I
didn't know what we were. We definitely were more than friends, better
even than best friends. It was like we were a couple, but formally not
one.

We
did all the things that couple did like hang out and neck but always
stopped when things got too hot. Since we never defined what we meant
to each other we never said ''I love you'' or whatever serious couple
told each other.

As
a result, I remained a chaste princess while my prince caroused and
sowed wild oats, but still had the energy to monitor my movements. I
didn't mind. After all, I was so sure we'd end up together. I always
thought that in the end, it would be us. I loved him. I managed to
convince myself that he loved me (what else could it be?). Little did I
know that love doesn't conquer all, it only conquers the weak.

I
didn't think he'd be so stupid as to get a girl pregnant on the same
night they met at a party. I didn't think he'd be so stupid as to
forget to use some form of contraception. After all, he had given me a
lecture on safe sex. And I didn't think he'd be so stupid as to marry
the girl. But maybe I forgot that after all he was a man, and men have
been known to be stupid about these things. Their brain is located in a
region other than between the ears.

What
could I do? Kicking him in the groin and punching him in the eye seemed
like a good idea then. Don't blame me; he was the one who enrolled me
in a self-defense course. But I did not feel better. Seeing him bent
over in pain only made me angrier. I wasted my life for this lousy
excuse of a man? I could not believe it! I wanted nothing more than to
run to him and beg him to wake me up from the stupid dream. I wanted
him to take mesome place where we didn't know anybody.

No
pain, no memory, no humiliation. I wanted to just forget it ever
happened but since I flunked in the School for Martyrs, I couldn't, for
the life of me pretend, it didn't happen. I couldn't pretend he didn't
hurt me.

I
couldn't pretend everything was fine and dandy and exactly the way it
was before. We didn't talk for a month. For both of us who were
practically inseparable, that was like an eternity. I ducked into
corners whenever I would see him. I wouldn't take his calls. I wouldn't
see him. And for some time hate was my reason for getting up in the
morning, for breathing, for living.

Hate and I became good friends.

"God brings men into deep waters, not to drown them but to cleanse them,"
somebody once wrote. I didn't want to be cleansed. I just wanted to
drown in pain and misery and utter desolation. I wanted to wallow in
the dark and deep pit of despair. I know a thousand and one cliches
that say this can be a blessing and that I should be thankful. But
thankful is the last thing I'm feeling right now. I've always thought
that there are three kinds of women: those who break, those who mend
and those who are broken themselves.

Before
this hit me, I assumed that I belonged to the first or second category.
Now I know I'm in the third--so hurt and broken up inside. My
grandmother used to say that there is nothing you can do about pain
when it gives you a silly grin except grin right back. All I could
manage was a wry smile, a killer headache and the worst hangover the
day before his wedding.

Evidence
of that is the disgusting sight of mashed potatoes and barbecue, thrown
up not three meters away from where I was lying prostrate on the floor
and the awful stench of cigarette on my hair. Frankly I don't want to
go. I want to wallow in misery in my messy room, crying, retching and
stinking, surrounded with Michael Learns to Rock (whose songs are
dedicated to the broken-hearted) CDs. But I have to go and attend the
wedding. I haveto bathe and prepare and put on that atrocious peach
(it's not even my color!) gown.

I'm
not doing it for the groom, my one true friend and love, Oliver.
Neither am I doing it for the bride, my younger sister, Sandra who
needs me. I'm doing it for my unborn niece who has the great fortune of
having me as her aunt. Call me stupid, but I've always known my place.
If it isn't beside the man I was destined to marry, if it isn't behind
my sister, who will take his name, wear his ring and bear him a child,
then it must be with my niece, cradled close to my heart so that she
will know both of our love.

Guest

rich_havens wrote:: at kapag nawala yung love di na maiisip nung girl na yung guy yung unang pinagbigyan nya ng kanyang sarili?

2009 na po tau kea it doest matter.i mean its not a big deal after all di na issue ang pggng virgin (pa "V" pa kau dyn..ahaha)..

cguro ung mga taong ang icp n ganon na sa lalake lang n papakasalan nya isusurender ang bataan eh panget un ahaha..jowk..or i mean wala lang chance kea cguro ganon ung defense mechanism nya..ahaha

galt sa mga virgin...ahaha... obvious

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 7th January 2009, 5:59 pm

pilya ka din eh noh?! he he he

ke 2009 2010 2011 mahalaga magkanunawaan

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 7th January 2009, 6:01 pm

wag lang mag iiwan ng remembrance kung hndi pa ready at kung hndi rin naman kyo...

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 7th January 2009, 6:07 pm

maraming klase ng remembrance....

hay naku di ako maka relate ha ha ha

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 7th January 2009, 6:08 pm

maraming klase ng remembrance....

hay naku di ako maka relate ha ha ha

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 7th January 2009, 6:29 pm

remembrance - get preggy

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 7th January 2009, 6:40 pm

ay oo nga... pero ok na rin yun kung ako girl at least kahit di na ako mag asaw kasi may anak na ako...

Guest

rich_havens wrote:: maraming klase ng remembrance....

hay naku di ako maka relate ha ha ha

eto si rich oh magmalinis akala totoo...haha.... boom2

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 9th January 2009, 1:35 pm

totoo naman po ah...

Guest

ok fine

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 9th January 2009, 5:41 pm

huwag na po galit tahan na po ha...

Guest

hmmmppp....ahaha...

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 16th January 2009, 7:01 pm

hmp hmp at hmp din at hmp pa ha ha ha

Guest

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 18th January 2009, 12:59 pm

hay nako rich..ingat ka..bka mamaya kapg nagka love life ka mag iwan ka ng remembrance.pero wag naman gnun..kawawa ung bata eh..

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 19th January 2009, 10:41 am

if ever ganun man na ibibigay ng girl ang sarili nya sa akin... i am sure i will be responsible enough... hindi lang sarili ko iisipin ko mas iisipin ko ang kapakanan ng girl...

hindi lang puro sarap then pagkatapos iiyak, magmamaktol at iin um ng panlinis ng silver

Guest

ahaha...

weehh.. di nga..

nakanang...ahaha

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 19th January 2009, 12:57 pm

talaga lang rich ha..bka mamaya pareho kyo makalimut

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 19th January 2009, 6:58 pm

kung makalimut man yung girl ako hindi...

concern din ako sa kanya (sino kaya yun)
kumbaga aware din sa consequence... kung di pwede maghintay ng right timing
maraming paraan para hindi malagay sa alanganin si girl...

Guest

ahh..yeah left

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 20th January 2009, 9:23 am

hmmmmmm.... hayyyyyyy...

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 20th January 2009, 1:23 pm

hmmm ka jan.. Very Happy

Guest

bgay tlg kau mommy ni daddy rich..ahaha

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 21st January 2009, 9:44 am

showbiz... mang intriga ba?!

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 21st January 2009, 9:45 am

OT ka na twilight: back to topic please

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 21st January 2009, 1:06 pm

ha?ano un twilight?isa lang daddy koh eh..c bf.hehehehe

Guest

ahaha...yihii...

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 21st January 2009, 4:26 pm

babarilin ko tweety mo eh... bang! bang! bang!

ratatatatatatatatatatatatatatatttttttttt ka boommmmmmm!!!!!

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 22nd January 2009, 1:16 pm

eh bkit meron kang tweety sa avatar?cge nga

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 23rd January 2009, 1:24 pm

kapatid sya nung tweety ni twilight...

ito tweety bird ko... mabait saka friends sila ni sylvester ha ha ha

kasama pa nga si taz, si daffy at si bugs eh... saya saya nila noh...

ang kukulit nga nila eh

Guest

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 25th January 2009, 1:28 pm

gnun din un rich.msama pa rin si sylvester eh

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 26th January 2009, 10:15 am

hindi naman ah... law of nature lang talaga siguro

saka nasa food chain

Guest

ahaha...msasama tlg ang pusa..

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 26th January 2009, 10:54 am

FYI po...

ang pusa pinapanalangin na humaba ang buhay ng amo nya para may magpakain sa kanya

compare sa dog na pinapanalangin na mamatay ang amo nya para may makain syang buto...

Guest

san mo nnmn nasagap yn rich..imbento..ahaha..nakausap mo nb ang pusa at aso..ahaha

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 26th January 2009, 11:44 am

sabi ng mga talapantas na nakasalubong ko...

yan ang sabi nga mga matatanda

Subject: Re: keeping a girl 26th January 2009, 1:36 pm

anong konek rich?

off topic..hehehe

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