Guilty Feeling

Subject: Guilty Feeling 5th June 2009, 8:43 am

Tulong naman, paano ba mawawala ang guilty feeling matapos mong malaman na after ng break up w/ your ex eh umiiyak pa rin sya hanggang ngayon?
should i give her consolation? or should i just let her be........thanks

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 5th June 2009, 9:22 am

hmmm.... bkit naman me guilt jan? kasalanan mo siguro kung bkit kayo nag break no?!

nahu-hurt si ex sami kya umiiyak, meaning bka love ka pa rin nya..
if u will consol her, aasa yun..eh gusto mo pa ba mkipag balikan?
may mga pros and cons kc yan.. baka iba ang maging dating sa kanya kung lalapit ka uli..

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 5th June 2009, 9:27 am

eh nakak konsenya kasi nabasa ko yung comment ng friend nya sa FS eh puro tungkol sa akin and her moving on...oo naman mahal ko pa last january lang naman kami nag break, kaso i really can't commit ryt now...
Ganito pala yun ang sikip sa dibdib na malaman na may isang taong nahihirapan dahil sayo...

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 5th June 2009, 9:31 am

huh?! ano bang i can't commit right now? ano ba for u ang commitment?

ikaw ba hindi ka hurt sa break up nyo?

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 5th June 2009, 9:53 am

okey na ako eh kasi i'm too occupied to even mourn about the break up, naaawa kasi akosa kanyan kala ko kasi okey na rin sya, that's what i thought the last time i saw her okey na okey sya nun pero di pa pala.

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 5th June 2009, 1:15 pm

hindi mo naman sinagot ung tanong ko eh...

in the first place, bkit ka nkipag relasyon kung di ka ready for a commitment...(u just remind of me someone...hay!)
i think dun sya nasaktan ng bonggam bongga...she invested feelings na kc yun pla wlang tugon...

of course, di tlga magpapakita ng kahinaan yun infront of u..

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 5th June 2009, 1:21 pm

hindi pa ako ready na magkaroon ulit ng commitment, 2years kaya kami...masyado lang hindi umayon ang schedule ko at schedule nya kaya ayan naghiwalay....

naaawa lang ako syempre minahal mo yun.....

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 5th June 2009, 4:54 pm

sa akin una, ano ang dahilan at nag break kayo? sino ang nagdesisyon na break na kayo? kung ang ex mo ang nag sabi na break na tayo, ano yung dahilan para magdesisyon syang makipagbreak sayo? and vice versa kung ikaw naman ang nagdesisyon makipagbreak sa kanya?

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 5th June 2009, 5:03 pm

ang point diyan, may sinabi ka na sa kanya about her attitude na hinde maganda sa kanya na maging sanhi ng rift sa inyong relationship... at least binigyan mo pa sya ng chance na magbago pero ayaw nya at kinonfront ka nya by insulting, mocking. eh hinde ka dapat guilty....

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 5th June 2009, 6:28 pm

sami wrote:: hindi pa ako ready na magkaroon ulit ng commitment, 2years kaya kami...masyado lang hindi umayon ang schedule ko at schedule nya kaya ayan naghiwalay....

naaawa lang ako syempre minahal mo yun.....

sami ndi guilt yan nra2mdaman mo kundi awa n lng cguro s knya..kc sav mo nga minahal mo xa at 2yrs yun pinagsamahan nyo..

ask ko lng bkit b kc kyo ngbreak??at cnu ang nkipgbreak??bkit ndi kp ready mgcommit eh mhal mo p nmn xa?? lam mo kung mhal mo tlga yun isang tao meron kang paraan pra ipakita n mhal mo xa..

tama c cheechai ndi yun mgpa2kita n ndi xa ok..

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 6th June 2009, 10:12 am

Nag break kami kasi kasalanan ko, wala daw ako time sa kanya
eh dalawa kasi trabaho ko tapos hindi magtagpo schedule namin kaya ayan napuno, nakipagbreak...

Ok naman kami ngayon kaso lang nung isang araw nabasa ko dun sa kaibigan nya na parang she's still hurting eh guilty ako kasi feeling ko okey na ako tapos sya pala hindi pa.

Gusto ko lang naman maalis yung guilty feeling, yaw ko kasi makipagbalikan dahil baka maulit lang yung dati, sya kasi ay nasa marrying age na at ako naman ay hindi pa ready to settle down...

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 6th June 2009, 1:10 pm

ah i see.. so hinde ikaw ang nagdesisyon na makipagbreak... ask ko lang, noong na meet mo si ex, 2 na ang work mo?

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 6th June 2009, 2:38 pm

2 tapos dami pa racket in between, the break up was more of a mutual understanding between us that we can no longer hold on to the relationship coz we lack time to make it work out.

ang tanong ko lang naman is how can i make the feeling of guilt go away....

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 7th June 2009, 10:44 am

ok para sa akin... i analyze mo.. 1. ano ang nagustuhan mo sa kanya at u want her to be your girlfriend at ganoon din dun sa ex mo... 2. gaano kahaba ng time kayo naging magnobyo (years? months?) 3. ano naman ang ayaw mo sa kanya (kung dinaan mo sa bad approach like kinonfront mo sya about it.. dun ka dapat ma guilty... pero kung dinaan mo sa magandang usapan, you don't have to feel guilty....). di mo na kailangan i post dito... basta eto lang "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." Basta nasa tama ka. you don't have to be guilty about it.

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 7th June 2009, 1:15 pm

thanks evrybody, it's okey now, we've already talked about it.

Guest

kelangan pa ba ng payo ko?haha

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 16th June 2009, 5:53 pm

excuse na lang yang walang time na yan. kalokohan yan.heheheeh

napasagot ako eh.

ganito lang yan, kung nasa isang relasyon ka/kayo dapat may effort kayo at may time kayo sa isa't isa. para que pa nakipag commit ka wala naman time at effort.

sa isang relasyon dapay may:
1.communication lagi
2. may time (di excuse ang masyadong busy sa work. may time ka nga na mag internet eh. sa nobya/nobyo mo pa)
3. may effort ( makipag kita sa bf/gf)

kung wla nyan wag na makipag commit.hehehehehe

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 16th June 2009, 6:56 pm

super agree to mommy!!

mag jojowa tpos wlang time, kumusta naman yun?!

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 17th June 2009, 6:51 am

ay sorry naman...tao lang...
every relationship has it's imperfections, it just so happened that ours was lack of time and constant communication....
I'm pretty sure yours has it's own.....(dumugo tuloy ilong ko)

Kaya nga this time, i'll remain single until i'm capable of dealing with it....

Guest

ako ang masasabi ko lang sa mga lalaking nakikipag hiwalay sa mga gf nila is mga walang kwenta....prang di sila lalake...tpos maguguilty-guilty ng ganyan...ahaha...liligaw ligaw kau taz pag sinagot na kau..kau pa meh gana makipag hiwalay..npaka ungentleman naman...di nlng antayn mga ung babae ang magsabi nun...haayy..

kung ako sau..leave ur ex gf alone..wag mo nlng syang guluhin para makapag move un ng mabilis...sabi nga ni nicole knina.."NEVER SAY DIE, TOMMORROW IS ANOTHER GUY"..haha..

mahirap magmove on kc pag alm mong ok kau ng ex mo or andyn lang sya sa paligid mo...it hurt..it hurts u know..haha..

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 17th June 2009, 3:50 pm

Uy sya nakipag break hindi ako, lasing ka ba?hahahahaha

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 17th June 2009, 5:17 pm

sami wrote:: ay sorry naman...tao lang...
every relationship has it's imperfections, it just so happened that ours was lack of time and constant communication....
I'm pretty sure yours has it's own.....(dumugo tuloy ilong ko)

Kaya nga this time, i'll remain single until i'm capable of dealing with it....

i dis agree...

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 18th June 2009, 10:06 am

ang masasbi ko lang po ay.....

kapag ayaw maraming dahilan, kapag gusto maraming paraan gum

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 18th June 2009, 10:36 am

i agree with icy ang mommy....

para paraan para lumusot... naka! mga dahilan n yan

Subject: Re: Guilty Feeling 18th June 2009, 10:38 am

correct!

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